Honestly, it costs me quite some effort and perhaps a bit of courage to write this article; finally, after having seen the book quite some times in my local bookstore but having ignored it due to its simple title, I decided to buy Rich Dad, Poor Dad - if it would have been called “an empiric study about the financial development of… ” I would have bought it sooner, in the end I currently live in Germany. I have still not read the entire book, and read through the first two chapters only yesterday. But still, I can say that those first two chapters have pretty much enlighted me. It is a funny thing, because many of what is written I know in some form of the other, but my entire life I have failed living it.

The book Rich Dad, Poor Dad is a story told by Robert T. Kiyosaki, who grew up in Japan. During childhood, he grew up with two ‘dads’: his real dad, a highly educated man with a good job, but constantly struggling with his financials, and the rich dad of his friend Mike, which is much like his second dad. Mike’s dad is a successful entrepreneur, and the main difference is how the two dad look at money, and the goals they pursue in life.

In the first chapter of the book, Robert T. Kiyosaki writes about how people are told during childhood and adolesence to get good grades, perform well through highschool and university, in order to get a good job and a good salary. Thus, young adults graduate from college or university, obtain good jobs, and work hard on their career. They get themselves credit cards, they buy a fancy car, and with the first salary raise perhaps a home on a mortgage. People get married, get children, and as life gets more expensive, they work harder and take on second jobs… I do not want to lose myself in Robert Kiyosaki’s words, but the bottom line is that most people live in an illusion; the illusion of having a secure job, building a secure retirement, and that working hard for a large and renomated company is going to make them rich on the long-term. However, in the end these people end up working solely in order to be able to pay their bills and their liabilities.

In order to lead a truly fulfilled life (and I do not mean rich, simply fulfilled), it is necessary to find ways to let money work for you, in stead of the other way around. This means, for example, investing in stocks in order to see them rise in value, and to obtain dividend pay outs. It means investing in other forms of businesses, hire people to let them do the work for you. It means identifying opportunities, entrepreneurial opportunities, and be in charge. The biggest problem, however, is that most people are so caught up in their thinking of “education / good grades / getting a good job”, that these opportunities pass by without them even noticing.

I let the first chapter reflect for a moment yesterday, and the more I thought about it, the more I identified opportunities in the past, which I had let pass by due to my focus on making a career. I still remember vividly, that when I was 19 or so, I got interested in international trade. I bought some books on international trade, and how to become a trade agent, and in a newspaper I saw some offers from manufacturers of cellphones looking for agents. The costs for starting up an agency were extremely low, and it was a time at which cellphones were just starting about to hit the market… but I was discouraged by my family and friends, and unfortunately I listened to their advice, to get a job. One year later the cellphone business started booming for real…

Throughout my entire life, I have been looking for better jobs, better salaries, promotions, and the like. And I believe this will be one of my top priorities for 2010:

I pledge to stop focussing on making a career and losing myself deeper in the treadmill until I cannot get out. In stead, I will be on the outlook for business opportunities, aiming at gaining financial independence. And I will do anything, that is necessary.

 

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